This week I’m honored to bring you an interview with ShadowWolf, who deeply enjoys the consensual and sensual use of knives, tasting his partners’ blood, and controlled bleeding. He and his partner are particularly fond of BDSM, meaning that they enjoy consensual power-exchange. Think “thank you, Sir, may I have another”-type fun! For him, and his partners, these are activities for which they actively seek eager participants. Carefully planned and performed, these activities become erotic rituals full of intimacy, trust, and seduction.
ShadowWolf volunteered to share this information about his sexual tastes, as well as his contact information. Of course, if this is something you’re interested in, then you must be very careful with physical and emotional safety. Find yourself a kink-friendly medical professional to help with this, as well as trustworthy mentors! That said, click to read on about this week’s fetish: blood & knives.
Thank you so much for letting us interview you for ExploringIntimacy.com, ShadowWolf! Please tell us, what is your fetish?
Bloodletting/Tasting and Knife Play
How common do you think your fetish is?
Semi Common, at least the letting part of it, but the tasting maybe not so much.
Does your fetish, or people who participate in it, have any catchy titles?
Some Vamypre sites can have catchy type titles like “Tasty Morsel”
How do you incorporate your fetish into your sexual experiences?
My girl now and I have not ventured into this yet as she is not ready, but I love to taste the trickle of blood from a small cut as I fuck her or as I torment her.
Is there anything you have to be particularly careful about with this fetish? If so, how do you handle it?
Yes, cutting of any sort can cause infections. Also you don’t want to share body fluids with someone unless they are a life partner or you and they have regular blood tests done. Diseases can be contracted. It can also be emotionally draining so be sure you are both ready for it.
What really works for you about this fetish, what aspects turn you on?
There is something very intimate about taking someone’s life blood into your own, you can get no closer to another human being.
Would you please tell us a story or two about sexual experiences you’ve had involving your fetish?
I try not to make this a solely sexual experience, and I also enjoy taking a girl into my mouth during that time of month. My girl has given herself to me during this time of month, and the slighty salty taste of her blood mixed with her cum was powerful, and intense, and she told me after that it was soothing and very peaceful for her.
How do people react when you share your fetish with them?
It is hard for people to understand, as it can be a bit scary. Once I have explained to them why, they seem to understand a bit more. I also don’t share this with just anyone as some just cannot wrap their head around the concept.
How do you go about finding partners that share your interest?
I have a partner, and though she is not ready for it, she is not closed off to it. If I had to look, I would utilize FetLife, and also attend munches and fetish parties when I could.
Can you recommend any resources for people who want to learn more or might even share your fetish?
A lot of Vampyre sites have good information on safe blood tasting and letting, and as well as experiences of people who have tried it. Most BDSM sites can provide info on bloodletting. Some good books for any fetish would be Screw The Roses Send Me the Thorns. I learned a lot from this book.
Anything else you would like to add?
This is a very very personal fetish, and some people are scared of that kind of intimacy, so never push a person and try to trick them into it; the intensity of it comes from both parties being into it. Most of all be SAFE!
Thank you so much, ShadowWolf, for taking the time to let us interview you and for allowing us to share this information with our readers! If you would like to contact ShadowWolf you can find him on FetLife or email him at ( the_wickedwolf at yahoo dot com ).
If you, dear reader, would like to be interviewed please contact Ruth at (ExploringIntimacy at gmail dot com) with your fetish. Of course, you must be a legal adult and ok with having your interview posted on the blog.