In this second installment of our weekly Twisted Fetish Interview, the lovely Kitten graces us with stories and information about her kinks. Kitten is also chooses to submit, although she identifies as a slave, which means that she offers even more power and control to her partner, Master Coyote. You can read all about Kitten and her BDSM experiences at her blog, Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery. Be sure to also read the previous entry, which is an interview with Nadia West who blogs about her experiences as a submissive woman at Diary of a Kinky Librarian.
Kitten enjoys a wide range of kinks, from bondage to blood play. As always, this is about peeping inside your kinky neighbor’s relationships, and not meant as a how-to. It’s also worth noting that this interview is meant for grown-up eyes, as the wording and content gets a touch explicit. Woo-hoo! We’re excited to post all about it, so dive in after the jump!
Please tell us, what is your fetish?
I have many, actually. Although now that I have been living them for so long they don’t really feel like a fetish anymore, but more as just how my life is. I’ll give a general overview for starters:
- Some humiliation
I’m sure I’m forgetting some.
How common do you think your fetish is?
I believe that would depend on which one you’re speaking on. I think that submission is extremely common. I actually think that some people have that “fetish” without even realizing it or knowing what it is “called” by the general populace. I do think that pain and humiliation is rather common. Exhibition I believe is fairly common. Blood? That I’m not so sure on. Some people find it very erotic. Others find it disgusting. I do think however that bondage would be the most common fetish that I have.
Does your fetish, or people who participate in it, have any catchy titles?
How do you incorporate your fetish into your sexual experiences?
It is rather easy to incorporate all of the fetishes listed above into sexual experiences. Every month that I get my period there is a large chance that blood play will be involved. The scent arouses both myself and my Master. Not to mention to sight of it. Submission is rather easily incorporated by orgasm control, orders, etc. Bondage is highly erotic, whether Master is simply tying me up to be on “display” or tying me in such a way as that all of me is readily available for His use. Master enjoys inflicted pain and I enjoy receiving it. It is very arousing for both of us. A slap here, a flogger there. Use your imagination. Master enjoys showing me off, so my being an exhibitionist really turns Him on and it turns me on to be displayed to others for Master’s pleasure.
Is there anything you have to be particularly careful about with this fetish? If so, how do you handle it?
The only fetish that I feel we are very careful about is the blood fetish. Aside from when I am on my period, my Master and I have indulged in Edge Play. Master is always very careful and I don’t move a muscle when He cuts me. I have a very beautiful scar on my chest from Him. It was carefully planned and if something had gone wrong, I could have easily ended up in the Emergency Room.
What really works for you about this fetish, what aspects turn you on?
Oh my, there are so many. Submitting to Master turns me on not only in the sexual sense but in the sense of it fulfilling an emotional need. The sight and scent of blood is very arousing to me, although I can not really explain why. And with the Edge Play being a part of the blood fetish I have to say the fact that it is dangerous to a point only adds to it. With the bondage I love the fact that I know I am “helpless.” He can do as He wishes because even if I did have the choice, I can’t move. I can’t do anything but take it. The pain aspect, I’m not sure on. All I know is that there have been times where I have huge bruises across my ass and I am in a lot of pain and think there is no way I could possibly want to have sex right then, and Master tells me how wet I am all of a sudden. And He’s right. Apparently my body is more of a pain whore than my mind leads me to believe.
Would you please tell us a story or two about sexual experiences you’ve had involving your fetish?
There was one thing that came to mind immediately when I saw this question. Master had a very large candle and had me lay down with my legs opened. He started by dripping the wax onto my breasts and stomach. Eventually he would lower the candle closer to my body so that each drop of wax would be hotter than the last one. (Hence the pain fetish.) He then just let the candle wax coat my pussy. My pussy was completely covered. When He was satisfied He allowed it to dry and harden. When He peeled it off of me it was in one complete piece and was a perfect mold of my cunt. He made sure to show every detail to me and asked me if I would like to lick something that delicious looking. (He has often picked on me because I said I would fuck myself if only I could get a clone.) That part was only slightly humiliating because I was staring at a mold of my own pussy and thinking about what that would be like. I was blushing and very aroused by the time He was done with that little session.
How do people react when you share your fetish with them, if anyone knows?
It depends on who we share it with. We have one friend who completely accepts everything we do. I am naked or in lingerie when he comes over to the apartment. He rather enjoys the “show” so to speak. But then there are our other friends who basically say, “Whatever makes you happy” but then judges us later on. Some of our friends apparently think that He is going to order me to strip and suck His cock right there in the middle of a family function.
How do you go about finding partners that share your interest?
I married Him. Seriously though, when Master and I first met we started dating and we noticed that He was naturally Dominant towards me, and I was naturally submissive towards Him. We had no idea about the lifestyle. We basically had seen it in porn (mainly bondage) and that was about it. We then started doing research and found that there are many people out there who live this way at all times. It is their life. It is not something they play at. That is what we have become. This is simply who we are.
Can you recommend any resources (books, websites, magazines, phone numbers), for people who want to learn more or might even share your fetish?
I don’t really have any resources to recommend. When my Master and I were first starting down this path, we did a lot of reading on the internet and at first we took it in word for word. But if we’ve learned anything over the past 5 1/2 years, we’ve learned that no matter how many resources you utilize, at the end of the day it is up to you and your partner to figure out what is right for you. There are a lot of different views out there, and there is no “right way.” There is only what is right for you.
Kitten, thank you so much for telling us about your relationship with your Master. I’m sure that our adventurous readers will be excited to get ahold of even more explicit details at your blog – Kitten’s Paw Prints in Slavery!
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