May 092010

If you haven’t heard, allow me to be the first to tell you that May is National Masturbation Month!  I’m living it up this month with my new relationship with the amazing as an exclusive reviewer just for them.  Celebrations in the USA include official Masturbate-a-thons on both coasts.  But I want to help you to hold your private festivities at home, or anywhere else you like to get down with yourself.  I’m doing just that by offering my first major contest here on the Exploring Intimacy blog!

You can win:

  • An awesome, surprise premium sex toy set, thanks to!  I promise, this is going to be one amazing set winging its way to your door.  It’s sure to inspire you to celebrate in some exciting ways.
  • A full session in my new virtual office here at! That’s right, I will be your personal sexuality and relationship expert – ready to help you tackle your intimacy goals.  We’ll start with a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation to figure out where you want to focus and how, then schedule your free full length session to really dive in.
  • Everyone who enters will receive a (free) offer from me for a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation as my thank you!

How To Enter:

  • There are three ways to enter, and you can earn one entry for each way. You must enter during May by doing one or more of the following:
  • 1) Sign up for Dr. Ruthie’s newsletter at this link! Not only is this a way to enter, but it’s also your secret source for free online workshop tickets and other exciting updates.
  • 2) Spread the word on your Facebook, Twitter or Blogs by sharing the link to this contest!  On Twitter be sure to tag me @DrRuthie , so I can count your entry.  For Facebook and Blog posts, please link to them in a comment below, so I can count your entries there, too. Yay!
  • 3) Comment below by sharing how you would improve the pleasure and/or intimacy in your life with me as your private sex and relationship expert!


  • You must be at least 21 years old, live in the USA and willing to share your home address for toy shipping.
  • You must have private online access with the ability to utilize UStream for viewing and streaming your own video in order to utilize the virtual office.  If not, we can do a phone session instead.  Remember, sessions with me are educational only and not a replacement for medical, mental or other health care treatment.
  • You cannot enter if winning would put you in an unethical dual relationship with or myself.  For example, you cannot be an employee or immediate family of either.
  • Up to three entries are allowed per person by using all three of the methods above.  You cannot receive multiple entries for doing the same opportunity more than once.
  • Winner will be contacted by email or Twitter between June 1 and June 5 to claim their prizes.  They must respond with the necessary information within one month or forfeit their prizes.

So what are you waiting for?  Let’s start celebrating!

  24 Responses to “Win A Premium Toy Set AND A Free Session With Dr. Ruthie”

  1. I would love help figuring out how to break this rut of dating men who don’t care about me like they should!

  2. I can definitely help with that. Good luck in the contest, S!

  3. I am always up for trying new things in bed with my girlfriend… we have just been running out of ideas and its been slowing us down! Looking for a little extra spice for the spice cabinet…

    here’s the facebook link for the contest:!/profile.php?id=24808451&v=wall&story_fbid=101791883200580

  4. Extra spice – I love it! Thanks for entering here and on FB. Good luck!

  5. Just signed up for your newsletter! And I would love to get better at communicating with partners – it’s something I’ve been working on but still struggle with sometimes! It’s easier in a relationship, but I haven’t been in one of those in a long time, so being able to negotiate needs/desires in a safe and sexy way in shorter-term sexual relationships is definitely important.

  6. Excellent! Communication is one of my areas of specialty. ;) Thanks for entering!

  7. I would love some help with getting better about being upfront about my sexual needs during sex w/ my partner, as well as a way/ways to stop myself from getting too caught up in my doubts and stopping myself from orgasming.

    Also, I just signed up for your newsletter.

  8. Maggie – It’s good to hear from you, and I’m glad to hear that you’re in with the newsletter now, too! Working on your sexual needs, communicating them, and sticking to them is a great goal. So many women could benefit from your awareness of how important that is! Good luck!

  9. I feel like mine and my husband’s sexlife has hit a plateau, and is suffering for it. He’s not much of one for experimentation, and is very vanilla. I want to branch out and try new things! As a result, we tend not to have sex as often anymore. (Nevermind having two young kids and his graveyard schedule for work!)

  10. I hear you, Kayla! Kids, work, and all of that stress can be a bad combination when it comes to our sex lives. It would be my pleasure to help you two get a jump start on enjoying each other more again! Thanks for entering!

  11. I’d love to figure out how to make partnersex as pleasurable as self-sex.

  12. Oooh, I like that question! Thanks for entering, and good luck!

  13. I’m 23, and I feel like I should be in the prime of my sexual life, but I have hardly any sex drive. I think it’s because I get so bored during the middle of sex that it feels more like a chore than something I want to do. So hopefully, by having a consultation with you, I can learn how to be more in the moment with sex and try out ways to keep me from getting bored.

  14. Hi, Megan. Believe it or not, I hear this from a lot of women (and men). I’m looking forward to the opportunity to explore this with you and to help build some solutions so you can enjoy this time in your life to the fullest! Good luck in the contest!

  15. I would probably ask you more about being more sexually comfortable outside on being online.

  16. That is a perfect goal, Angel. Oh my goodness, I bet hundreds of people are reading that right now and thinking “me, too!”
    Thanks for entering – I’m looking forward to contacting you for a free mini-consultation and wish you luck in winning the full session and Babeland toys!

  17. I’d love to get some helping rebuilding the love and passion in my marriage. Hubby and I are in a rough patch and the flame has fizzled out… :( We’re both open to try new things and have a healthy drive, but there’s something missing emotionally.

  18. KT, I hear you! This is a really common concern and it’s also one that we can definitely bounce back from with some creativity and support. It sounds like you’re both ready to rediscover each other, and I’d love to be a part of that! Good luck on the contest!

  19. One thing I think would be very cool in working with you would be able to improve my foreplay performance and learn more about other erogenous zones besides just going straight for the goods :)

  20. Great! Thanks, Timbo! I’ll be sure to say howdy to you over there, too.

  21. Timbo, that’s a great goal! The way to a woman’s heart is through foreplay, after all. ;)

  22. I really enjoy reading your writings. You cut through so much BS.

  23. Thank you, Wayne. I really appreciate your comment; that makes my day!

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