Jun 012010

The heat of summer is here, and it’s time for you to start exploring your steamier fantasies.   Need a little help learning how to work with your rope, seduce your sweetie into taking control, or entice your lover into a bit of role play?   Then this is the contest for you!

Last month’s contest with Babeland was so much fun that I’ve decided to offer another fantastic opportunity to win sexy prizes for July.  This month I’ve joined forces with the luscious KinkAcademy for an incredibly kinky prize package for one lucky winner!  Seriously, this is one heck of a great package and you can enter to win up to three times.  Keep reading for all the juicy details on our kinky prizes and how you can win!


  • Three month membership to KinkAcademy.com – If you’re seriously interested in discovering more about your erotic self, and exploring creative and kinky new ways to enjoy sensuality then get ready for the Kink Academy…a revolution in sex, gender, and kink education for those that are newly curious as well as those that are well versed in such things! That’s the philosophy here at The Kink Academy, if there’s something about BDSM, fetishes, gender, and sexuality that you want to learn, you have a right to…no matter where you live or who you are.  By the way, I’m a proud member of the KinkAcademy faculty, so be sure to watch my videos on Fantasies for the Shy while you’re there!
  • Exploring Sensuality Journal – This goody is a KinkAcademy original!  Keep track of your sexy desires, discover creative inspiration, and expand your BDSM experiences with this structured journal. Helpful as a communication tool for couples! You can fill it out together, solo, or share what & when you’re ready. Great for self discovery even if you’re currently single! Either way, having a dedicated, organized space to write your erotic thoughts, experiences, & desires can help them become more conscious & more fulfilling.
  • Scene Starter Role Play Deck – Another KinkAcademy original!  These decks are a handy way to keep your kinky inspiration flowing, even in the middle of a scene! The verbal cues and handy phrases can be memorized or used as a starting point for ad-libbing in role. If you’ve ever had trouble thinking of “dirty” words or “nasty” names to use during your sexual playtime, then these cards will help keep those sexy thoughts rolling right off your tongue! (deluxe locking box not included)
  • A Full 60 Minute Relationship Coaching & Sexuality Education Session – in my virtual office here at ExploringIntimacy.com, skype or phone! That’s right, I will be your personal sexuality and relationship expert – ready to help you tackle your intimacy goals.  Bring my years of advanced training and practice as a couple’s well-being and sexuality expert into your life and begin experiencing the intimacy and pleasure that you deserve. We’ll start with a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation to figure out where you want to focus and how, then schedule your free full length session to really dive in.
  • Everyone who enters will receive a (free) offer from me for a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation by phone or Skype! Not everyone has access to a professionally-trained relationship & sex expert in their area, so this is your chance to spend a few minutes picking my brain about your pleasure and intimacy goals.  Watch your email for you invitation!

How To Enter:  There are three ways to enter, and you can earn one entry for each way. You must enter during June by doing one or more of the following:

  • 1) Sign up for Dr. Ruthie’s newsletter at this link! Not only is this a way to enter, but it’s also your secret source for free online workshop tickets and other exciting updates.
  • 2) Spread the word on your Facebook, Twitter or Blogs Share the following on twitter:  @DrRuthie & @KinkAcademy are giving away some very kinky prizes and I want to win! http://wp.me/pQOtE-AX #kinky #contests For Facebook and Blog posts be sure to include the contest link above, then come back here link to your in a comment below so I can count your entries. Yay!
  • 3) Comment below by telling me how you would add more kinky pleasure to your life with these prizes from KinkAcademy and an hour long private session with Dr. Ruthie.


  • You must be at least 21 years old, live in the USA and be willing to share your home address for toy shipping.
  • You must have private online access with the ability to utilize UStream for viewing and streaming your own video in order to utilize the virtual office.  If not, we can do a phone session instead.  Remember, sessions with me are educational only and not a replacement for medical, mental or other health care treatment.
  • You cannot enter if winning would put you in an unethical dual relationship with kinkacademy.com or myself.  For example, you cannot be an employee or immediate family of either.
  • Up to three entries are allowed per person by using all three of the methods above.  You cannot receive multiple entries for doing the same method more than once.
  • Winner will be contacted by email or Twitter between July 1 and July 5 to claim their prizes.  They must respond with the necessary information within one month or forfeit their prizes.

So what are you waiting for?  It’s time to explore that kinky side of yours!

  21 Responses to “June’s Sexy Contest: Explore Your Fantasies with KinkAcademy & Dr. Ruthie”

  1. Oooh, I’d love to add a little kink to my life! :) I’m already signed up for your newsletter, so I guess I can only get two entries for this contest (via this comment and Twitter)?

  2. Great contest. Kink Academy rocks!

  3. I’d love to add more kinky pleasures to my life by hopefully breaking down communicative barriers with my partner, hopefully with the aid of these prizes, ha!

  4. Thanks, DominaDoll! Yes, I’m really thrilled about this month’s prize package. Thanks for popping by and please help me spread the word!

  5. Thanks, kt! Current newsletter subscribers can still get an entry – just let me know here that you’re already on the list. So, that’s three entries for you!

  6. Kittums – sounds great! I’ll drop you a line soon so we can started! :D

  7. As a young woman, I’d love to get the chance to explore my less-than-vanilla side, so I can fully embrace my sexuality and get the most out of all my encounters. The educational nature of this prize really has me very excited, as it’d be wonderful to get a chance to hash out some thoughts with you, Dr Ruthie, but also to get a chance for personal reflection by using the journal. Living where I do, my opportunities to explore and increase my knowledge in this field are somewhat limited, but the internet provides so many great chances, like this one, to learn about topics that get my eyes widening and toes curling in anticipation!

    (I also signed up for your newsletter and tweeted about the contest)

  8. Sundae – Great comment! And I’m absolutely in love with your blog, starting from that image with all of the vibe wands in use at once. That definitely cracked me up. ;) At any rate, I will drop you a line soon to talk to you about that free mini-consultation you get for entering. Although we’re a bit (ok, way more than a bit) far apart, that’s the power of Skype and the net! Thanks for entering and good luck!

  9. I’m already signed up for your newsletter which I enjoy very much. Keep up the good work!

  10. Thanks, Wayne!

  11. Come the end of this month, I will be with my current partner for 2 years now, we are both in our 20’s and actually each other’s first sexual partners. I love him and I feel that he is my soulmate – the reason I would like to win is because he and I are looking into trying new things an experimenting with different things to have fun with our sex life. So one of the Kink Academy prizes would definitely help us out there – especially since we are working on being a little more kink into our lives. The other reason is because I am new new to sex and my sexuality I would love being able to be educated and expand my horizons a bit to help improve our lives. I’m looking forward to learning and discovering more as we go along.

    I also signed up for your newsletter and tweeted, thank you! :)

  12. Yay! Thanks so much, Sea of Neptune! This sounds like a wonderful goal to work together toward.

  13. i would love to enter and add some more kink in my life, but unfortunatly i’m in New Zealand, not in the States :(

    Good Luck for everyone else thgh :)

    ~ Fae

  14. Fae – I’d be happy to consider you for all of the aspects of the prize pack that don’t require shipping! Interested?

  15. Alrighty! Let’s DO THIS THING!
    1) I’ve signed up for the newsletter and confirmed! News away, Dr. Ruthie; news away!
    2) I’ve tweeted! http://twitter.com/MeowWontPurr/status/16080877157 I also did a follow up tweet because this contest is a bit unbelievably cool. More than a bit, actually. Severely.*Lethally.* …That might sound like I’m making fun of this but I completely am not. The most powerful tool a kinkster has is knowledge. This contest therefore arms that kinkster with far more power than any toy could ever offer.
    3) Where do I start. Alright, here: my sweetheart is new to kink and my being able to share a 101 primer with him would be invaluable. Also, I am at a point in my life where I’d like to explore a more domineering role. The curriculum for ‘New to Domination’ is spot on. And ‘Bondage Lover’? Well, all I can say is YES, PLEASE, and MORE. I want to have rope mastery that rivals the most thick-skinned cowboy. And thats just with the Academy! The Role Play deck sounds soooo delicious (the gift that keeps on giving!) and don’t get me started on an hour’s worth of advice.
    You are awesome for having this contest!! Best of luck, everybody!

  16. Wow! Thanks for your great comment, CaramelAh! Good luck in the contest. ;) And don’t forget that you get a free mini-consult (30 min) just for entering. I’ll be in touch soon, or you call me at (301) 979-9910 to get on the books even faster.

  17. 1n2) I’ve tweeted about this awesome opportunity and signed up for the newsletter (can’t wait to start receiving. How on earth wasn’t I before?!)

    3) Generally I like to think/pretend I’m that fucking awesome in the bedroom and in our kink play, but the truth is most of what I learn is just going with the flow while inside my head I’m hoping that he doesn’t laugh or think I’m silly. I’ve never been with anyone else aside from my husband so I’d like to become more confident in my actions (both vanilla and kink) so that I can be a strong dominant and stop second guessing myself and/or worth.

  18. Yay! Thanks for entering, Juliettia! Yes, a little confidence can make all the difference. Good luck on this month’s contest!

  19. Thanks for the contest! I hope I win! :-D

  20. Hi, Barmy! I hope you do, too! So, how would you use the prize package if you win?

  21. Hi Dr Ruth,
    I saw your Anal workshop in DC a little too late and have been hoping since then that you’d give another. So I guess if I won the prize package, that’s definitely an area my partner and I have been having a little trouble with. And it’d be great to have some time with you to figure out how to use the tools like the journal and scene decks in this area also. Thanks for having the contest!

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