Aug 142008
 

Catalina of CatalinaLoves.com is a hot writer, great mind, and amazing sexuality advocate. Toss her $10 and win a ticket for an amazing sex drawing!

Catalina of CatalinaLoves.com is a hot writer, great mind, and amazing sexuality advocate. Toss her $10 for a ticket for an amazing sex drawing!

After spending a bit of time slacking off from work in the sex-positive region of the blogosphere, it can be easy to forget the conservative nature of day-to-day life for most of us. Blogging and other forms of outreach and activism about sexuality are still very much a revolutionary act, one which can bear heavy consequences. I’m far from the only one to make a dramatic career shift due to conflicts with the boss over such things. Even though I’m trained to work with couples on issues that include sexuality, I knew the old career path couldn’t last the day I was banned from making condoms available. Now, one of our own has had to leave her established career over sexual-political implications. As if that weren’t bad enough, she must also defend her daughter from being brought into the fray by her former employer!

Her answer? A highly affordable auction of amazingly sexy goods and services donated by new and old friends!

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Jul 242008
 
Thomas Beatie & Little Susan Jullette

Thomas Beatie & Little Susan Jullette

Thomas Beatie, the no longer pregnant “Pregnant Man,” is in People Magazine with his 3 week old baby daughter, Susan Jullette. What a cute father-daughter picture! According to People, Susan took 40 hours of labor and was born the old fashioned way. It cracks me up to write that about a man giving birth. Anyway, all are well and happy and Nancy is doing the breast feeding after inducing lactation with hormones and a breast pump.

How a man had a baby – here

Pregnant Man, the movie – here

All posts on Thomas, Nancy and Susan Jullette - here

People’s article – here

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Jul 172008
 
Behind this sly smile is a might brain.

Behind this sly smile is a mighty brain.

Jamie LaRue is a prime example of librarians serving as our champions of freedom. In a well written and inspiring post, Mr. LaRue shares with us his response to a letter of complaint regarding the children’s book Uncle Bobby’s Wedding. This library patron is concerned that the book’s content is not fit for her child, and offers several suggestions on restricting the book. Jamie’s response is incredible, blending respect with a solid grounding in awareness of history and philosophy. I’m particularly moved by his clear appreciation for the parent who wrote to him. It is long-ish for today’s time-strapped blog reader, but really well worth your time. He chose to share it in order to assist other librarians likely to face similar letters during the upcoming year.

LaRue’s letter – here

LaRue’s website – here

Thanks to Geekle for submitting this find!

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Jul 172008
 
The Big Talk Can Be Scary for Some LolCats

The Big Talk can be scary for some LolCats

I’m seriously impressed! KVIA.com recently reported on a research project in which parents were offered weekly lunch-hour workshops during which they learned how to talk to their youth about sexuality. Adults received information and utilized role playing in order to increase their awareness, skills, and comfort in this area. Both comprehensive and abstinence-based approaches were included, allowing parents the opportunity to handle the topic as they see fit. What a fantastic idea! While I certainly use a comprehensive approach in this blog, I recognize the supreme importance of meeting folks where they are and offering them diverse resources to fit their own needs and ethics. Anywho, parents loved it and reported using the content with success. Yes, they even smiled about it. Companies found the idea peachy, as it helped promote a family-friendly work environment and offered the opportunity to increase productivity by helping parents deal with this troublesome topic at home. Parents also received training on techniques for listening to their kids without lecturing, and other general communication skills. I think I hear my post-graduation job calling me…

The study came out in the July 11 copy of the British Medical Journal, by the way.

Source Article – here

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Jul 152008
 
Mike Males, author of Scapegoat Generation, encourages us to cease using the term teen pregnancies

Mike Males, author of Scapegoat Generation, encourages us to cease using the term "teen pregnancies"

The LA Times published a sound, well-written and very thought-provoking opinion piece by Mike Males (of YouthFacts) on July 13th. In his letter, which is well worth reading for yourself, he makes several key points regarding myths that are commonly perpetuated by the media on the topic of “teen pregnancy.” To sum them up:

1) Remember that pregnancy pact thing in Gloucester, Mass.? It didn’t happen. That’s right, it wasn’t true at all. While the pregnancy rate when up a little from the year before, it wasn’t abnormally high overall. There was also no pact, no celebrations, no coordinated pregnancies. The principal who started the story refused to name sources and it fell flat under investigations. Hmm. My thoughts: even if a few kids high-fived each other, what would you expect them to do? “Gosh, Jane. You’re stupid.” No. Friends support each other, of course. And, it isn’t rare at all for some high schoolers to want babies, after all.

2) The very term “teen pregnancy” relies on sexist, old-fashioned ideas of careless teen boys hooking up with their young girlfriends. Oftentimes it is late teens with older men who are no longer teens at all. Should we not focus on these men, poverty, or other related issues? Why is it all about these young women?

3) And who says that these pregnancies are always bad? After all, some research (cited in the original article) clearly has found that women living in poverty did better if they became parents in their teens than if they waited. Their long-term incomes, tax payments, and so on were all improved. There is also a higher likelihood of intergenerational support from parents, it turns out.

4) Males wraps it up with a call for major sex ed and abstinence ed groups to stop ignoring large portions of the research that don’t meet their needs. He also calls to the public to be more careful about the pregnancy rumors they consume and repeat.

Good work, Mike Males. You’ve caught my attention and given me quite a bit to chew on.

Mike Male’s original opinion piece – here

Mike Male’s home page – here

Summary from National Partnership for Women & Families – here

YouthFacts.org, working to confront cultural myths about our kids – here

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Jul 132008
 
Logo of the UN

Logo of the UN

Friday was World Population Day. Over here we celebrated it by not procreating, you? That makes every day World Population Day over here, pretty much. The UN celebrated by issuing a statement encouraging all nations, especially those with the highest poverty rates, to focus on the importance of contraception and education for women. Over 3/4 of women in Afghanistan, for example, have never heard of family planning… which includes the concept that women and families choose when to have children instead of leaving it to fate or grace. As a result, very few condoms. Now, I’m pretty sure that the governments of all of the nations in which 5% or so of low-income youth use condoms are reading this blog and awaiting my political advice. I’m also pretty sure the UN is about to offer me a job (kidding on both points), so I officially state that I support the UN on this one! Let’s all celebrate by tossing a few bucks toward the wonderful folks that make sure we know about family planning and how to engage in it, and then for the after-party we can have a little non-reproductive pleasure! Seriously, this is yet another reason why spreading the word about healthy, happy sexuality and womens rights is important. Freedom: use it or lose it. Thanks, foremothers and fathers!

Source article by National Partnership for Women & Families – here

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