May 282010
Wet Platinum for Easy Pumping

Wet Platinum for Easy Pumping

Hey LA Times, quit trying scare people off using anal lube with your unethical writing!  You should know better!

This past week the LA Times came out with this frightening, unfounded and rediculously sex-negative announcement, written by Thomas H. Maugh II:

Lubricants may increase disease risk of anal sex, studies show

I wonder how many people read to the bottom of the article to note that it depends on the quality of the lube you’re using.  Furthermore, the beginning of the article notes that using lube during anal penetration (for men and women) may increase HIV, however it clearly states later in the article that the researchers were only testing for gonorrhea and chlamydia.  A different team would be checking into the HIV question in a later study.  That’s right, they are discussing two different studies and not giving full reference information for either, making it very difficult to double check the original studies for ourselves.  Argh!

Ok, so lets dive in a bit more and see what is going on here, according to the LA Times:

– A group of researchers (Pamina H. Gorbach and colleagues) at UCLA tested men and women for gonorrhea and chlamydia and also asked them about their anal sex habits, including what whether they use lubes and what kinds.  They found that about half use lubes, and those who used lubes were about “3x more likely to have contracted a rectal infection.”  Because this data does not appear to have been published, and is cited only as being from “a Pittsburgh microbicides meeting” I have no way to see if the rectal infections in general are limited to the 2 STIs they tested for or not.  I also have no opportunity to look for other possibilities.  For instance, I would like to know if they controlled for the frequency of anal intercourse or for condom use.  In other words, did they take into account the possibility that people who use lube might also be having far more anal intercourse? Did they ask about condoms and, if so, what was the impact there? There is no way to find out from this article.  Shoddy reporting!

– Then, the article brought in a second study.  In this study Charlene Dezzutti and her colleagues at U of Pittsburg reported that they tested 6 popular lubes on rectal cells.  They discovered that “many of the products had high concentrations of dissolved salts and sugars that draw water out of cells, weakening and even killing the cells. Some of them even stripped away significant portions of the surface epithelial cells on the rectal tissue, the layer of cells that serves as a protective barrier.”  In other words, crappy lubricants are bad for you.  We knew this already, although this does provide back-up information with helpful details.  PRE and Wet Platinum (a silicone based lube) were the safest while Astroglide was the most toxic in their study.  KY was bad for rectal bacteria (much of which can be healthy to have there) and ID Glide and Elbow Grease faired in the middle.  There was no info given on which types of Astroglide, KY, or Elbow Grease were used… we don’t even know if they were water or oil based!  And I can’t readily find out either, because the author neglected to give a date or media information for how this data was announced or published.  Seriously crappy reporting!

What can we learn from this?

– First of all, please be a savvy consumer of research.  If you could not look up the study for yourself based on the news article then something sneaky is afoot.  You need to be able to evaluate the original source for yourself; that’s what quality dissemination of scientific research is based upon!

– Secondly, be nice to your anus!  Use a high quality lubricant that is glycerine free.  What about the first study?  There simply isn’t enough information in the LA Times article to even begin to know whether we should listen and, if so, what it means.  We certainly know that skipping the lube increases the risk of risk of friction damage to your delicate anal tissues, and it can make things feel very, very unenjoyable.  Friction damage to tissue increases the risk of infection plus friction can also weaken condoms.  It would be a huge mistake to suggest that we should go without any lubricant at all for anal penetration!  Pick out a high quality product and proceed with protected, lubricated pleasure.

So, LA Times and Thomas H. Maugh II, you’ve been caught red handed with a piece of highly irresponsible journalism.  What is your response?


I encourage you to comment on the original article at the LA Times website and to contact them about their poor writing.  We certainly don’t need this kind of sex-negative, unethical, and incorrect crap coming out of our newspapers!

Comments are moderated, so who knows if mine will show up.  Here is my official comment below, for anyone who is interested:

What a poorly written piece of scare tactics! Mr. Maugh and the LA Times should be ashamed for such poor writing – have they no idea of how to review a piece of scientific research? Furthermore, there is inadequate information given to access the original research information in order to evaluate the findings for myself.

Clearly the quality of ingredients in lubricants make a big difference; trained sexuality educators have known this for a long time. There are also significant risks associated with not using lubricants. And, as other commenters have noted, we have no information about other potentially important variables like condom use or frequency of anal intercourse. Instead, HIV is mentioned at the opening to grab our attention, yet none of the research teams mentioned have even applied their studies to HIV risk yet. Mr. Maugh, are you seriously suggesting that we go without anal lubricant with this one sided article and assume the risks that go with such a decision?  Your unethical writing is inexcusable and I have encouraged my readers to recognize it as such at my blog.

May 162009

Sharing Your Sexy Secrets Well Can Be A Pleasurable Part of Emotional Intelligence

Sharing Your Sexy Secrets Well Can Be A Pleasurable Part of Emotional Intelligence

The Telegraph, a UK newspaper, puts out some interesting stuff.  I was quite disappointing, however, in their reporting on some very cool research on the role of women’s emotional intellegence in the bedroom.  The headline shouts “Intelligent women enjoy sex more than ‘bimbos’, research finds: Women with brains have more fun in bed than the average bimbo, new research suggests.”  What sounds like interesting research was baddly butchered in this article.  Unnamed Telegraph writer, I would like to invite to you discuss your choice of language over tea.  Topics covered will include both sexism and inaccurate reporting.

Lets focus the good stuff from this fascinating study and pretend that the “b word” was never used, shall we?  We all love good research with findings that can be applied in favor of sexy talk and fantasies!  (more after the jump)

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Nov 072008


Bisexuality Is In The News Lately, Like the Source for this Pic (click for the ABC news article)

Bisexuality Is In The News Lately, Like the Source for this Pic (click for the ABC news article)



In today’s modern society, we seem to have a lot more choices. Pizza sauce or Ranch dressing? Hot coffee or iced coffee? White paint or beige paint? Granite countertops or formica? Sedan or SUV? Penis or vagina? What if you could have both?

It’s so interesting how the sexuality of the human body works. I am fascinated when people tell me about their sexual preferences (gay, straight, and anything in between). I never tire of hearing about what makes others happy.

Meet my friends,  J (a sexy 29 year old male) and M (a sexy 32 year old female). Both are bisexual and have agreed to be interviewed for this post in the hopes of sharing their pleasure and past experiences, and to clear the air about this often misunderstood sexuality.

(interview after the break)

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Sep 242008


Have you ever told someone you love them in order to get sex?

Survey questions include: Have you ever told someone you love them in order to get sex?


Thanks to, who sent me this press release. I get quite a few of these by email, but this one was actually pretty interesting.  The sampling is sketchy for research purposes, but I can see the value.  Most of the questions are written well enough, although I wish we had the ability to mark more than one answer with some of them!


 The widespread adoption of the Internet makes it the most powerful communication tool ever devised, and can enable research on a scale that would have been unimaginable 20 years ago.  One of the first companies to successfully conduct research on a truly massive scale is Sex Health Guru, which created the largest sexual health research tool ever built.

To date, the Sex Health Guru Survey has generated more than 1.2 million responses, and continues to grow with thousands of new responses every day.  To achieve such high levels of participation, the survey uses a calculated mix of serious research questions and questions designed to entertain.  By engaging the user in this way, and offering complete anonymity, the survey creates an environment where users feel comfortable answering the serious questions honestly.

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Aug 032008

The Guttmacher Institute, an important source of and funder for sexuality research, recently released a summary of their research on the benefits of publicly-funded family planning services. Seven million women are served by such funding every year, and it is estimated that the number of unplanned pregnancies and abortions has been cut in HALF by these services! WOW! The report offers an expanse of data and statistics in a highly readable form, providing even more evidence that the current administration is crazy for attempting to put all birth control (not just publicly-funded efforts) in danger.

Source article – here

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Aug 012008

Are Teens Healthier When They Know About Condoms? Mr. Condom Seems to Like the Idea. has posted an interesting video on some research published in an ’06 issue of the Journal of Adolescent Health, suggesting that teaching about abstinence increases rates of risky adolescence sex. The original article makes some excellent points about the difference between the choice to abstain from sex and abstinence-only sexuality education, including the lack of a solid definition for the latter. The video reviews the research, drawing attention to rates for teen sex and advocating for comprehensive sex education, which is generally defined as promoting delaying or abstaining from sex while also providing knowledge and resources for those who do, or will, engage in intercourse or other forms of sexual activity. publishes doctor-reviewed videos compiled from information found at various medical and sexual health sites online, including journals. They also scan newspapers and magazines for interesting information. Thanks to John S. of for suggesting this topic!

Good reading, with an interesting video. You know where I stand on sex ed of adolescents, tell me what you think!

SexHealthGuru News Update Video – here

Original research article – here

( doesn’t like videos, sometimes, so I couldn’t show the video here. Sorry!)

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