Dr. Ruthie responds to messages as promptly as possible, but there may be a delay due to volume and she may not be able to respond to every email.  If you have questions about sex and intimacy, please begin by searching through her free YouTube videos – hundreds of questions have already been answered there!

ExploringIntimacy on YouTube, her own channel

FunWaresStore on YouTube, the sponsor of many of her videos and a great place to find them

Please remember that she cannot answer sex questions from minors. Please visit Scarleteen for fantastic information for teens and young adults.  Dr. Ruthie is not currently seeing new on-going clients, although requests for professional consultations can sometimes be met.  See her suggested referrals for other professionals that Dr. Ruthie highly recommends.

Important: Dr. Ruthie is NOT a physician and cannot replace the care and advice of such a professional, nor can she substitute for contracted treatment with your own licensed mental health practitioners.  Dr. Ruthie’s online information is for entertainment and educational use only and should be considered general information for a large audience.  Take what is useful to you and leave the rest, and be sure to consult with your health professionals.

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