Exploring Intimacy regular, Diva, tells it like it is in her guide to hooking up online.
“Picture it… Sicily…1912… a beautiful young peasant girl with clear olive skin meets an exciting but penniless Spanish artist. There’s an instant attraction.” …oh wait… this isn’t The Golden Girls. This is 2008 in America… a world of sexual confusion and provocative behavior.
I freakin’ wish it was that easy to meet someone decent and feel some fireworks. Hell, at this point in my life I would settle for a spark! Just one spark; I’m not greedy. But until that day comes, I will continue to take risks and enjoy the internet because lets face it… how can you really meet someone at a bar and expect to have really intriguing and/or stimulating conversation? And by stimulating, I don’t mean a conversation about penis-in-vagina happenings (or penis-in-the-ass happenings if you fancy that). And by stimulating, I don’t mean planning a rendezvous in a car in the bar parking lot where you can participate in some fellatio situations. And by stimulating, I definitely do NOT mean planning an orgy in the back room of the bar or in the bathroom.