So you know what lubes to use for anal play, how to properly enjoy the prostate (yours or someone else’s), and what toys are good for a first prostate experience. You’re full to the brim of exciting information and ideas for you to try with your partner… now you just need to get them as excited as you are! Fear not, Dr. Ruthie is here to help you communicate about anal play like a pro, so you and your partner are on the same page and ready to enjoy some backdoor loving together. Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!
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If you’ve been reading my blog much at all over the years, then you know that I’m a big fan of well made sex toys and lube. But what if you’re new to all of this fanciness and wondering how to suggest sex toys in your relationship? This video will go over some of the main concerns and questions I’ve received over the years and give you a few solid tips on introducing this wonderful form of play into your relationship. Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!
It just came out today, so you’re the first to know and I couldn’t be more excited to share this image of the cover for my upcoming book, The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty! There may be some changes to it yet (like making sure I’m noted as a Dr.), but the word from my publisher is that some of the major book stores are already loving the design. Isn’t it adorably retro yet sassy?! And the writing is coming along wonderfully. It’s due to ship to stores in May, 2011 and may be available for pre-order on Amazon early as November (apparently it’s hard to know exactly when it will go up). Don’t worry, I’ll let you know when the pre-order goes live. Be sure to sign up for my newsletter for all of the updates. In early 2011 I’ll start working on a few release parties with workshops – let me know if you’re interested in hosting one in your area!
Every G Spot is different, but they also have things in common
Ready to take your G-Spot explorations to the next level with a G Spot vibrator? Then you’ll want to be sure to watch my new video on how to choose and use a toy designed just for your G-Spot! Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series possible.
The heat of summer is here, and it’s time for you to start exploring your steamier fantasies. Need a little help learning how to work with your rope, seduce your sweetie into taking control, or entice your lover into a bit of role play? Then this is the contest for you!
Last month’s contest with Babeland was so much fun that I’ve decided to offer another fantastic opportunity to win sexy prizes for July. This month I’ve joined forces with the luscious KinkAcademy for an incredibly kinky prize package for one lucky winner! Seriously, this is one heck of a great package and you can enter to win up to three times. Keep reading for all the juicy details on our kinky prizes and how you can win!
Prizes:
Three month membership to KinkAcademy.com – If you’re seriously interested in discovering more about your erotic self, and exploring creative and kinky new ways to enjoy sensuality then get ready for the Kink Academy…a revolution in sex, gender, and kink education for those that are newly curious as well as those that are well versed in such things! That’s the philosophy here at The Kink Academy, if there’s something about BDSM, fetishes, gender, and sexuality that you want to learn, you have a right to…no matter where you live or who you are. By the way, I’m a proud member of the KinkAcademy faculty, so be sure to watch my videos on Fantasies for the Shy while you’re there!
Exploring Sensuality Journal – This goody is a KinkAcademy original! Keep track of your sexy desires, discover creative inspiration, and expand your BDSM experiences with this structured journal. Helpful as a communication tool for couples! You can fill it out together, solo, or share what & when you’re ready. Great for self discovery even if you’re currently single! Either way, having a dedicated, organized space to write your erotic thoughts, experiences, & desires can help them become more conscious & more fulfilling.
Scene Starter Role Play Deck - Another KinkAcademy original! These decks are a handy way to keep your kinky inspiration flowing, even in the middle of a scene! The verbal cues and handy phrases can be memorized or used as a starting point for ad-libbing in role. If you’ve ever had trouble thinking of “dirty” words or “nasty” names to use during your sexual playtime, then these cards will help keep those sexy thoughts rolling right off your tongue! (deluxe locking box not included)
A Full 60 Minute Relationship Coaching & Sexuality Education Session - in my virtual office here at ExploringIntimacy.com, skype or phone! That’s right, I will be your personal sexuality and relationship expert – ready to help you tackle your intimacy goals. Bring my years of advanced training and practice as a couple’s well-being and sexuality expert into your life and begin experiencing the intimacy and pleasure that you deserve. We’ll start with a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation to figure out where you want to focus and how, then schedule your free full length session to really dive in.
Everyone who enters will receive a (free) offer from me for a Complimentary Intimacy Enhancement Consultation by phone or Skype! Not everyone has access to a professionally-trained relationship & sex expert in their area, so this is your chance to spend a few minutes picking my brain about your pleasure and intimacy goals. Watch your email for you invitation!
How To Enter: There are three ways to enter, and you can earn one entry for each way. You must enter during June by doing one or more of the following:
1) Sign up for Dr. Ruthie’s newsletter at this link! Not only is this a way to enter, but it’s also your secret source for free online workshop tickets and other exciting updates.
2) Spread the word on your Facebook, Twitter or Blogs Share the following on twitter: @DrRuthie & @KinkAcademy are giving away some very kinky prizes and I want to win! http://wp.me/pQOtE-AX #kinky #contests For Facebook and Blog posts be sure to include the contest link above, then come back here link to your in a comment below so I can count your entries. Yay!
3) Comment below by telling me how you would add more kinky pleasure to your life with these prizes from KinkAcademy and an hour long private session with Dr. Ruthie.
Rules:
You must be at least 21 years old, live in the USA and be willing to share your home address for toy shipping.
You must have private online access with the ability to utilize UStream for viewing and streaming your own video in order to utilize the virtual office. If not, we can do a phone session instead. Remember, sessions with me are educational only and not a replacement for medical, mental or other health care treatment.
You cannot enter if winning would put you in an unethical dual relationship with kinkacademy.com or myself. For example, you cannot be an employee or immediate family of either.
Up to three entries are allowed per person by using all three of the methods above. You cannot receive multiple entries for doing the same method more than once.
Winner will be contacted by email or Twitter between July 1 and July 5 to claim their prizes. They must respond with the necessary information within one month or forfeit their prizes.
So what are you waiting for? It’s time to explore that kinky side of yours!
The Tango is a well-made, versatile toy with a really nice feel, offering easy use and comfort to individuals or couples. Plus, the turbo button will be really handy for folks who like to warm up with a pulsation setting but need a strong, steady vibe to reach orgasm!
Material: Silicone with a hard-plastic end cap and soft buttons
Price: $99
SMT rating: Powerful, but just short of the SMT-1 rating internally. Clitoral stimulation is less powerful, but still ranks solidly at the moderate level.
FunFactory's Tango - sent for review by Babeland.com
When I opened my Babeland.com review box and found the beautiful Tango, I knew it was going to be a good month for reviews! The lovely Tango vibe runs on 4 AAA batteries. Thanks to very pliable silicone, this “innie-outie” sex toy has a sensual, soft, velvety texture, covering a comfortably flexible surface. Vibrations start at the base, which makes sense because the opening of the vagina is one of the most sensitive areas (aside from the clit), and travel up the 5-inch insertable length of the thick toy body as well as through clit-stimulating branch at the case.
The design has a smoother, less hooked end, not meant to particularly stimulate the G-spot, and offers a strong, throbbing, pulsating, really pleasant tactile sensation vaginally, with moderate stimulation to the clitoral area. There are several settings and a special turbo charge button, taking you from a pulsation to an even stronger steady vibration when held down, which would enhance the climax of an experience.
If you or your sweetie like the innie-outie shape of a traditional rabbit vibe, but aren’t fans for the oscillating shaft or rotating pearls, then this may be the perfect match for you. The clit stimulator has a good reach, and offers a moderate level of stimulation… plus you can always flip it around to make the toy a vaginal/anal combo! I’m a big fan of Fun Factory toys, and this one is no exception.
Enter this month’s contest for a surprise premium toy set (it’s a really exciting set) AND a free full session in my online office!
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