Nov 152011
 

Have you taken the time to love your that special g-spot in your life lately?  Perhaps you’re wondering where to find her, or if she even exists!  Rest assured, FunWares and I have you covered!  I made this video to help you learn about the g-spot, find it on yourself or a partner, and learn some basic techniques that will help you learn how to stimulate this lovely area of the body.

Contact Dr. Ruthie today with your sexuality questions.

Jul 032011
 

The card states: I don't know how to masturbate.

First thing every Sunday morning I bumble over to my laptop and check out the newest PostSecret pieces.  They often give me pause to think, and sometimes they make go hug someone as soon as possible.  But this one is making me obsess a bit.  On the front it bares the text “I don’t know how to masturbate.”  According to the PostSecret URL (which often has extra information), the back asks if anyone else has the problem.   I wish I had a way to contact the person who submitted this question and tell them yes. No matter your gender, sexuality, or anatomy… yes.  Many, many folks have the same problem.  Even better than not being alone is the news that there are many wonderful resources to help you learn how, when and if you want to.  Patient, kind, caring sexual well-being educators who don’t judge in the least are reading your card and hoping that you’ll contact them.  I know I am.  We each deserve to enjoy our sexual energy and pleasure, regardless of our past experiences (or lack of experience).  Am I right or am I right?!

Information on how to masturbate, from Scarleteen.

Betty Dodson writes about masturbation on her blog and has affordable ebooks on how to orgasm, not to mention some very fine DVDs on the topic.  She also offers sex coaching.

 

 

Nov 042010
 


Sometimes, we sex educators get a little bit bummed about the popularity of “How to please a man”-type workshops.  While this is certainly an important thing to learn, I’m in favor of everyone being pleased.  Ladies, you might be surprised how often I hear from people of all genders, looking for tips on how to please their female partners.  For some reason, these folks don’t tend to show up to workshops, but I know you’re out there looking for the information, and I’m glad you are.  For all of you who proudly proclaim “Ladies first!” these tips on cunnilingus are just for you.  Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!

Nov 032010
 

Continuing the video series from last week, Dr. Ruthie is back to give you even more ideas for fun and intimate positions that won’t put too much strain on your body.  Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!

Oct 242010
 

Sex can be fun, intimacy-enhancing, relaxing, exciting, draining, and have tons of other effects on us.  It can also, sometimes, be strenuous!  Sometimes we can find it hard to find a position that not only feels good, but that we can hold and move around in comfortably without straining or wearing ourselves out.  Lucky for you, Dr. Ruthie is here to share some comfortable sex positions that will help you and your partner get your groove on without throwing your back out.  Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!

Oct 242010
 

So you know what lubes to use for anal play, how to properly enjoy the prostate (yours or someone else’s), and what toys are good for a first prostate experience.  You’re full to the brim of exciting information and ideas for you to try with your partner… now you just need to get them as excited as you are!  Fear not, Dr. Ruthie is here to help you communicate about anal play like a pro, so you and your partner are on the same page and ready to enjoy some backdoor loving together.  Thanks so much to FunWares for making this educational series on sex and pleasure possible!