Dec 082009
 

This one's just for you, Jack!

This one's just for you, Jack!

It seems that foot and shoe lovers around here are ready to take off! Jack is here to tell us about how he discovered his love of women’s comfy shoes, something he now explores with his wife of many years.  Jack is certainly proof that marriage and kink can go together!  Keep reading to learn about it.

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Nov 242009
 

Jared shares his stories of BDSM pride with us, as a kinky bi, poly switch and father

This week’s interview is with Jared, a very kinky, younger, bisexual, poly switch.  So what exactly does all of that mean?  On the vocab side it means that he loves BDSM and other kinks, can be attracted to people regardless of what is in their undies, has lovingly committed and open relationships with more than one partner, and can enjoy being both dominant and submissive when it comes to BDSM.  On a more meaningful level, it means that Jared shrugs off many of the categorical rules and limits that come with sexual labels.  And did I mention that he is a big BDSM community building activist?  Read on to learn more.

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Jun 302009
 

Muddy Toes - J Loves Em! (click image for source)

Muddy Toes - J Loves 'Em! (click image for source)

This week’s I’m proud to introduce “J”, who was kind enough to take the time to tell us about his kinks, including lots of good stories.  J loves sexy situations that combine feet (especially in nylons), bondage and mud.  Keep reading to learn more about his experiences and interests!

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Jun 162009
 

 

Lady HotchKiss, Dominant Seductress

Lady HotchKiss, Dominant Seductress

 

Here at Exploring Intimacy we have been graced with interviews by many male dominants and female submissives.  We have been fortunate to be visited by several wonderful female dominants as well, but not quite as many.  This week it is my pleasure to share an interview with Lady HotchKiss, a very experienced FemDom who is regularly served by not one, but two submissive men!  She also is the author of two blogs: Lady HotchKiss Says and Vanilla On The Outside ONLY!  The wonderful Lady HotchKiss took the time to tell us (in lush detail) about how she  discovered BDSM by playing the vampire for a lovely lady in her life, and a bit about a very interesting form of sexual play called sounding.  Read all about it after the jump!

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Jun 092009
 

silverbrush

This week we’re joined by Joe, who keeps the theme squarely on spanking with his love of paddling a willing rear.  Joe is the creator of SpankingResource.com and brings a wealth of experience and knowledge about the kink of spanking.  Check out his interview to learn more about him and check out his list of recommended resources for anyone interested in trying, or just watching, this kink!

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Jun 022009
 

The Lovely Sarah of SpankingSarah.com

The Lovely Sarah of SpankingSarah.com

Last week I spoke with Thomas about his love of spanking, and this week I’m following it up with a delightful set of interviews with two women who love to be spanked.  First up is Sarah, then we’ll hear from Julie!

Sarah is a breathtaking professional spanking model and the star of the very explicit (and NSFW) spanking fetish site SpankingSarah.com.  She also write a spanking blog that features nude and action stills from her various projects.  In today’s interview she tells us about how she came to love spanking and finally came to the decision to pursue it her relationships and as the focus of her professional life!  Keep reading after the jump to discover more.

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