Aug 222011

The following press announcement came my way from a good friend – please spread the word to anyone you might know in the DC area!

You are invited to join us for the 6th session of FemEx– a course designed for women by women to create a safe environment where women can discuss topics including anatomy, sex & gender; body image; communication; sexual practices; relationships; and more – all issues that impact the way we experience the world. This is an adaptation of a women’s empowerment class that is taught regularly at UC Berkeley, Harvard, and Brown. You can download the Female Experience Syllabus and visit us at for more information- any updates will be posted there and on facebook!

Attending an Info Session is MANDATORY in order to submit a FemEx application. We will offer three info sessions to accommodate different schedules. If you are unable to attend one and would still like to apply, please contact us at All applications are due September 14th.

FemEx Fall 2011 Info Sessions – dates and locations (Washington, DC)

Tuesday, September 6th
Cleveland Park Library
3310 Connecticut Ave. NW
6:00PM – 8:00PM

Wednesday, September 7th
Felicia Stewart Center
1901 L Street NW (ARHP Office)
6:00PM – 8:00PM

Thursday, September 8th
Cleveland Park Library
3310 Connecticut Ave. NW
6:00PM – 8:00PM

Info sessions are open house – so please drop in anytime between 6:00pm – 8:00pm . During the info session, facilitators will go over the course syllabus and there will be time to ask questions about the class. You will also get to meet past participants who will share their experiences. We expect to hold classes on either Mon, Tues, Wed, or Thurs from 6pm-9pm but the specifics of time, date, and location will be based on the availability of those interested. Any suggestions on a regular meeting location are also welcome.

Please RSVP to if you will attend one of our info sessions so we know how many people to expect. We will send any necessary follow-up information (read: how to access office buildings, contact info, etc) regarding our info sessions to those who have RSVP’d. If you can not attend one of our info sessions and are still interested in the class, please email us. Feel free to email this invitation to friends, co-workers, or other amazing women you know. Our info sessions are open to all.

The Female Experience
learn more at
join DC FemEx on facebook
follow us on twitter @DCFemEX

FemEx strives to build a respectful community in which we challenge ourselves and grow together through the exploration and exchange of our individual experiences of being female — contributing to a larger, collective female experience.

Jul 032011

Most of the time, I prepare for conferences by nerding up with lots of articles, picking up a fresh notebook and a few good pens (anyone want to contribute an ipad to my cause?), readying my digital slides and packing layers for those ever-frigid presentation rooms.  It’s a different story when I’m off to a sex-positive event like Floating World!  Suitcases are fewer, presentation outfits are much more creative, comfy shoes or no shoes are the rule, and at least one piece of luggage is usually dedicated to fun freebies like these!  FunWares has generously sent me this gorgeous box of seductive tingly lip glosses, stimulating Tenga Egg toys, and delightful flavored dental dams.  Yay!  And you guessed it: I’m the lucky educator who gets to share all of these goodies with workshop attendees.  The condoms were a purchase I made – 100 unlubricated condoms for teaching safer oral sex skills, and for folks who want to avoid the silicone lube that typically comes with lubed condoms.  If you’re not yet in the know, that dab of silicone lube can put unwelcome wear on beloved silicone dildos and prosthetics.

Yep, Floating World is not your typical educational event, or at least not the ones I cut my teeth on as a grad student with a CV to build.  At events such as these, the days and evenings are filled with some of the most breath-taking, entertaining and applicable sex ed from some of the finest fellow educators in the world.  And the nights?  They’re educational and entertaining in… other ways. And the outfits get even better!

Many thanks to FunWares for helping me spice up my presentations at FloatingWorld.  Will I be seeing you there this year?

Mar 212011

This morning I woke up to a thunder storm with rain so heavy I thought it must be ice.  By lunch, the sun was bright and the birds were singing.  This is the time of year to when nature shows its power and comes into bloom – and she has the same effect on our relationships!  There’s no better time to join a workshop, mentorship group, or call-in and start enjoying the healthy joy and renewal of spring in your relationships.  I hope to see you soon!

Dr. Ruthie’s Public Events Schedule for March & April, 2011
(All times are Eastern)

Healing Circle in Celebration of Personal Renewal (phone group)

  • March 24, Noon
  • Call and Join by phone at 1-218-862-7200   x 900944 (free!)
  • This is a free event, hosted by phone! You can call in from anywhere and absolutely everyone is welcome. Callers are not asked to speak, you’ll only be asked to relax.  Take a few moments in the middle of your busy day to sit back, relax, and put your joy and well-being first. This is the third in my series of free monthly healing circles, all done by phone to make them accessible anywhere. Nothing is needed on your part once you’ve dialed in, just listen and melt for a bit. We’ll be relaxing, breathing and meditating together as I offer a simple, guided celebration of the energy and renewal of Spring!  This meditation and celebration circle will be recorded so that you may listen at a later time, too. There is no fee to attend circles live or by recording; however, I ask that you consider donating $15 to in place of admission to this event. No RSVP needed to join live. Email Dr. Ruthie to receive the direct link to the recording.

Certified Orgasmic – Sexy Happy Hour Workshop at Lotus Blooms

  • March 24, 6 – 7:30 pm
  • 1017 King St., Old Town Alexandria (DC area)
  • $5, RSVPs encouraged to (703) 535-8225
  • Ladies, whether you’re searching for your orgasms or you want to learn how to enjoy them more often, this class is just for you!  This workshop will introduce you to the secrets of stronger, easier orgasms by yourself and with your partners. Attendees will also receive a discount for the advanced Certified Orgasmic series with Dr. Ruthie! All women and their partners are welcome, but be sure to RSVP right away, as workshops fill early.

Dr. Ruthie’s Period Party

  • March 27, 2 – 4:30 pm
  • RSVPs required – contact Dr. Ruthie for more information
  • Hosted at private DC residence. Info up on RSVP.
  • This party is for women 21+ to gather, laugh, share stories, and learn more about natural approaches to menstruation products!  Hosting by Dr. Ruthie and sponsored by LunaPads, every participant with receive a special gift bag with great products.  Plus, we’ll be fiesting on red velvet cake, sangria, and other themed goodies.  Drop Dr. Ruthie a line to request your invite!  Portions of the party will be post on YouTube, for those who can’t join live.

Momentum Con: Making waves in sexuality, feminism, and relationships through new media

  • April 1 – 3
  • Registration required for this amazing weekend event in DC.
  • Dr. Ruthie will be facilitating a panel on the ethics of blogging at this event, and participating in many other workshops and classes. See you there!

Discovering and Communicating What You What

  • April 14th, 7-8:30 pm
  • The Mautner Project, DC ($15 in advance or at the door)
  • Before we can tell our partners what we want and need from intimacy and relationships, we first need to figure that out for ourselves!  Discovering what we want, putting it into words and then communicating it to our partners is an important element of relationship satisfaction and good sex.  Join Dr. Ruthie as we explore these concepts and practice putting them into action.  RSVPs and advancd tickets are suggested.

Sex-Positive Professionals Group Call: Creating and Building Presence through Writing (online and off)

  • April 18th, Noon – 1:30 pm
  • This group call is for members of the Sex-Positive Professionals Group (SPPG), a mentorship and community group for current and aspiring sex-positive professionals.  Learn more about joining the SPPG!

How to Make Her Moan – Sexy Happy Hour Workshop at Lotus Blooms

  • April 21, 6 – 7:30 pm
  • 1017 King St., Old Town Alexandria (DC area)
  • $5, RSVPs encouraged to (703) 535-8225
  • By popular question, this workshop is especially for all of the gentlemen look to give the women in lives a night to remember!  Learn the tips and techniques to pleasuring her, from seduction to climax and after.  Diagrams, non-explicit demos, and detailed information will give you what you need to know to have her glowing!
Jan 052011

Celebrate A Sexy 2011 with Dr. Ruthie!

Start your 2011 off in sassy style by joining me for a workshop or calling into a monthly healing circle!  This year I’ll be offering an exciting monthly workshop at The Mautner Project, in addition to workshops at Lotus Blooms in DC, and during my travels all over the country.  I’m also thrilled to begin offering a free monthly call-in healing circle with a different focus each call.  To top it all off, two incredible tele-groups are forming now and I’m offering some nifty deals on registration to ring in the new year.  Keep on reading to get the scoop!

Upcoming Workshops & Tele-Groups with Dr. Ruthie

January & February 2011
All times are Eastern.

SOLD OUT! Thank you! 1/20 at 6pm – Hit The Spot: G-Spot and Prostate Pleasure *FREE*
Lotus Blooms – Alexandria, VA
RSVP suggested, as spots fill early.
The G Spot is real and Dr. Ruthie is coming to Lotus Blooms to help you enjoy it by yourself and with your partners!  The G Spot is one of four genital pleasure spots for women, and gentlemen have their own prostate (or P Spot) to enjoy.  You’ll learn about all of these areas for him and her, so bring your friends and leave with lots of inspiration! Join us for the workshop at 6:00 pm sharp.  This event is designed for all genders, sexualities, relationships and singles. Tickets are free but Reservations are required. Call (703) 535-8225 or visit Lotus Blooms to reserve your seat before the workshop fills!

1/27 at Noon – Healing Circle in Celebration of Our Genders and Sexualities *FREE*
Tele-Group – Join by phone at 1-218-862-7200 x 900944
This circle will be recorded so that you may listen at a later time, too.
There is no fee to attend circles live or by recording; however, I ask that you consider donating $15 to in place of admission to this event.
No RSVP needed to join live.  Email Dr. Ruthie to receive the direct link to the recording.

2/17 at 7pm – Relaxation and Pampering for Your Sensual Self
The Mautner Project – Washington, DC
RSVP required
Call your friends and make plans to join Dr.Ruthie for an evening of relaxation and pampering for everyone.  Get back in touch with yourself through gentle massage and pampering techniques designed to increase comfort and relaxation. Dr. Ruthie shows you how to bring a new level of loving body language to your relationship with your sensual self! $15

2/18 – 2/20 – Dark Odyssey Winter Fire
I’ll be presenting 3 classes and an event at Winter Fire 2011 in Washington, DC!  Topics include: oral sex for him, sex toys for guys, fantasies for the shy, and a live healing circle event.  If you’ve seen me present these topics elsewhere, I can assure you that you’ve never seen me present them like this!  Register for this amazing event at soon, as it always sells out early.
Registration for Winter Fire is required, but no RSVP is needed for the classes once you are registered.

2/24 – Healing Circle in Celebration of Surviving Sexual Violence *FREE*
Tele-Group – Join by phone at 1-218-862-7200 x900944
This circle will be recorded so that you may listen at a later time, too.
There is no fee to attend circles live or by recording; however, I ask that you consider donating $15 to in place of admission to this event.
No RSVP needed to join live.  Email Dr. Ruthie to receive the direct link to the recording.

*SPECIAL OFFERS On Tele-Group Registrations*

Sex-Positive Professionals’ Tele-Group
This February I will be launching my professional mentorship group for current and aspiring sex-positive professionals.  Members will be invited to join monthly group mentorship calls, receive individual progress-boosting calls with Dr. Ruthie, and can participate in our private online community.  This is a rolling group, meaning that members may join at any time, provided the group is not full. However, to help us get a strong start, I’m currently offering $25 off the first 4 months for those who register in time for February’s monthly group call!  Read more about the group, then give me a call to learn how you can join.

Certified Orgasmic Tele-Group
The Certified Orgasmic group is a special women-only community dedicated to finding your orgasms and enjoying them with ease and pleasure, both by yourself and with partners.  This group meets twice monthly and also includes monthly private calls with Dr. Ruthie to focus on your personal progress points.  This is a closed four-month program, meaning that each group is small and new members are not admitted once a group begins.  Group calls are held over the lunch hour and are also recorded so members may listen and participate at any time.  The next group is scheduled to begin in April, but those who register and pay in full by 2/28 will receive two free private sessions to thank you for your early registration.  Contact me directly to learn more about this group and inquire about registration.

Apr 022010

Recently I was inspired to update my workshop agreement, a contract which outlines the responsibilities of myself (as the presenter/facilitator) and the folks who are hosting my workshops.  This was the perfect opportunity to add clauses into my contract regarding accessibility for attendees who are disabled, nursing, and of diverse genders and sexualities.  For those of you who have similar contracts, I encourage you to consider adding sections related to these needs as well:

  • Handicapped accessible locations, parking and restrooms
  • Reasonable heating/cooling control
  • Availability of non-alcoholic drinks, especially if alcohol is sold or provided
  • Open breast feeding policy, or dedicated space for breast feeding
  • Sturdy chairs, some without arms and some with (for differing accessibility needs)
  • Expectation that all genders and sexualities be welcome at all events
  • Vending allowances which exclude toxic or body-unfriendly products

Sometimes it isn’t possible or desirable to meet all of these requirements.  For example, I may be hosted by an organization on the third floor of an old building with no elevator, or the workshop may be designed specifically for a certain gender.  However, my contract now requires that this be disclosed and agreed upon at the time of booking and that all promotional materials include this information.  That’s right, accessibility is now a contracted default at all of my workshops, instead of a request.  It’s about time!  After all, it is the societal ignorance and bigotry that creates accessibility problems for those with disabilities, not the disability itself.  Please consider joining me raising your requirements to meet these appropriate and oft neglected points.

Got suggestions for something I forgot or overlooked that can be readily addressed in a general contract like mine?  Let me know!

Jun 082008

Aphrodites Toybox of Atlanta

Next weekend Andrea, our lovely podcast interviewee featured in post below, and Ruth will be presenting a fresh intimacy workshop: Romance and Finance at Aphrodites Toybox of Atlanta!  Andrea is an exceptional financial expert with a passion for serving her communities, so don’t delay in reserving your spot.  The two of us will be hosted by the lovely and classy Aphrodite’s Toybox of Atlanta. The cost is only $25 per person (with a discount for college students).  For more information and to make reservations call 404 292 9700, or check out our Workshops FAQ on our main site.

Romance & Finance on June 15 (6-8p) – Combine intimacy techniques with financial know-how to increase your communication and pleasure in both areas!  Ruth (our founder) will be joined by Andrea, an excellent financial counselor and good friend, for a unique evening of learning and fun.  Couples and individuals are welcome and reservations are suggested.  We’re hoping to get Andrea in here for a podcast interview during the month of June, so stay tuned!